Confidence and charisma are closely related.
I read it somewhere a few days ago.
But I beg to differ from that phrase. Confidence shows mostly in peoples’ actions and reactions.
It shows in how they carry themselves.
Charisma is a relative term and does not always coincides with confidence. Most of the time charismatic people may be coercing their mind to be confident while on the inner surface, they may be lacking exactly that.
Also, just because someone speaks something emphatically does not mean they are confident of their point; it may be a ploy for self defense.
Confident persons never argue but say their opinion firmly but politely. One can detect it easily from the way they deal with problems.
This is my humble opinion.
Joining the 99 Club causes unhappiness.
Once upon a time, there lived a King who, despite his luxurious lifestyle, was neither happy nor content.
One day the King came upon a Servant who was singing happily while he worked. This fascinated the King; why was he, the Supreme Ruler of the Land, unhappy and gloomy, while a lowly servant had so much joy. The King asked the Servant, “Why are you so happy?”
The Servant replied, “Your Majesty, I am nothing but a servant, but my family and I don’t need too much – just a Roof over our heads and warm food to fill our tummies.” The King was not satisfied with that reply.
Later in the day, he sought the advice of his most trusted Advisor. After hearing the King’s woes and the Servant’s story, the Advisor said, “Your Majesty, I believe that the servant has not been made part of The 99 Club.”
“The 99 Club? And what exactly is that?” the King inquired. The Advisor replied, “Your Majesty, to truly know what The 99 Club is place 99 Gold Coins in a bag and leave it at this Servant’s doorstep.” When the servant saw the bag, he took it into his house. When he opened the bag, he let out a great shout of joy… so many Gold Coins!
He began to count them. After several counts, he was at last convinced that there were 99 Coins. He wondered, “What could’ve happened to that last Gold Coin? Surely, no one would leave 99 Coins!” He looked everywhere he could, but that final Coin was elusive. Finally, exhausted, he decided that he was going to have to work harder than ever to earn that Gold Coin and complete his collection.
From that day, the servant’s life was changed. He was overworked, horribly grumpy, and castigated his family for not helping him make that 100th Gold Coin. He stopped singing while he worked.
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Witnessing this drastic transformation, the King was puzzled. When he sought his Advisor’s help, the Advisor said, “Your Majesty, the servant has now officially joined The 99 Club.”
He continued, “The 99 Club is a name given to those people who have enough to be happy but are never contented, because they’re always yearning and striving for that extra “1″ telling to themselves: “Let me get that one final thing and then I will be happy for life.”
We can be happy, even with very little in our lives, but the minute we’re given something bigger and better, we want even more! We lose our sleep, our happiness, we hurt the people around us; all these as a price for our growing needs and desires.
That’s what joining the 99 Club is all about.”
How to use affirmations effectively.
A poll in the Internet revealed the following purposes for which affirmations are most used.
Getting out of debt or building wealth
* Attracting a perfect partner
* Getting that promotion or starting your own business
* Finding the inspiration to write that best-selling book
* Lose those extra pounds or staying motivated to exercise
* Affording your dream home
Another poll revealed that more than 70% of people reported that affirmations didn’t work for them.
How affirmations work for some desired results for most of the people?
Are they including something or missing vital aspects while chanting the affirmations?
From my experience as a personal coach on law of attraction, subconscious mind power and using affirmations effectively, I have concluded that belief is the sole factor that is affecting the result of affirming. If you say affirmation, or use those subliminal programs to insert affirmations in your subconscious mind directly, you should very firmly believe that you get the end results. Belief alone can lead you to your goals.
We all know how a metal is attracted to magnet. What is the basis of this attractor factor? Yes you know it is the existence of magnetic field.
Do we have that as human beings?
You bet! It is our feelings that have all the attributes of a magnetic field. Using our feelings alone, we can attract our desires and there is no exception.
Now think again how you can use affirmations mingled with strong feelings of belief that you are attracting the purpose of your affirmations.
Practice it; use it. You will be taking confident strides and in no time, you too can become a guide to others like me.
If you strongly believe in the process, you can’t fail. I assure you. The law of universe assures that.
This affirwarware tool might me useful to some of those die hard nay sayers.